The Faux Customer

You already know I enjoy stories of my favorite topics be it travel, shawls or millinery. This story had me do a double take. It comes from  a book I’ve been enjoying, The Diary of a Milliner , by Belle Otis in 1867:

“To illustrate the importance of what I have been saying I will tell a tale of to-day. Those who like to turn every thing to instruction may whittle a moral therefrom

A well-dressed lady came up to me, and asked me to show her some of our handsomest bonnets.

I asked. “Are you looking for any particular style or color?”

“No. I wish to see what will become me best.”

She deliberately took off her own bonnet and commenced trying those that were on the saloon table. One after one she took them up, and put them on her head, till she had seen about thirty casting their differently combined tints over her complexion. She invited my comments and suggestions upon each one. She viewed herself in each in the five mirrors of the saloon, in all the various light she could command, and placed herself in ever conceivable attitude before them.

One thing or another was at fault with every one of them. She had asked the price of all, and cheapened each to the lowest possible fraction for which they could be bought.

She then went to the side-table, and performed the same operation with fifteen or twenty more. There were none that exactly suited.

“Haven’t you put some away in drawers?” she asked. I went the same rounds with a dozen drawers containing six or eight bonnets apiece.

When those were exhausted she pointed to the window, and asked if I would be kind enough to bring here two handsome bonnets that were hanging there.

Something in the inner life, probably it was that attribute of the dual denomination penetration, admonished me that she didn’t wish to purchase a bonnet, but was seeking an afternoon’s entertainment at our expense. Another something, whether it was a spirit tapping, tapping at the inner door I know not, admonished me that there are times when to practice the forbearing policy of the remarkable patriarch, of whom I have been speaking, is to cast pearls before swine. Instead of starting for the desired bonnets, looked at her steadily in the eye while I modulated my voice to a very respectful tone, and replied:

“If you really wish to buy a bonnet, I will go down and get them; but I fear that will suit you no better than the others have done.”

She saw that her role was played to the end and a successful actress she had proved herself. She had confined her audience in the closest attention for about  two hours. The other two bonnets were beyond her reach. With the most inimitable coolness and unconcern she looked me back and replied:

“I don’t wish to buy a bonnet. I bought mine last week.”

If she had struck me in the face I wouldn’t have been more startled and surprised than I was at the exhibition of such boldness. I could scarce refrain from crying out, “O shame, where hides thy blush!”

After a moment, the ease with which she had accomplished her consummate piece of impudence. Moderated by my indignation to a sort of admiration. I would like to know more about you, I thought.

I could conceive of no motive that could induce a lady – so she appeared on the surface – to make so irredeemably mean an exhibition herself. I abnegated self in apparent interest in her affairs, and quietly asked:

“If you didn’t wish to purchase, why have you tried on so many bonnet?”

“I wanted to find out your prices, to see if I got cheated in mine. If I did I’ll never trade at the place where I bought  it again.”

She had told me the truth, but not the whole truth. I like to sift truth to the bottom, so I pursued:

“You needn’t have tried all those bonnets to find out the prices. I would have told you that, with pleasure, if it would have given you satisfaction.

“Oh, I wanted to see, too, if you had a bonnet in your store more becoming to me than mine. My milliner told me if I could find one in the whole city more so I might keep the bonnet and she would give me the money back!”

 

After extensive internal exasperation for the milliner, the discussion continues revealing the faux-customer had every intention of retrieving her money and leaving the bonnet she purchased as a way of punishing the shopkeeper, claiming “I haven’t worn it but three times, – once to church, once out to Roxbury, and once to the Museum.” and Store-keepers do tell such shocking lies in order to sell their goods, I see no other way but to keep strict watch of them, and bring them up to the mark when they overreach and don’t tell the truth.

Published in: on May 25, 2013 at 8:00 am  Leave a Comment  

Nice Fabric at a Nicer Price

Each day FabricMart picks a fabric to drop the price on. Today they have a fabulous red/brown/black plaid shirting that would look great done up as a dress. (Okay, I Really want this fabric but can’t spare a penny right now.)

http://www.fabricmartfabrics.com/xcart/Plaid-Cotton-Shirting-Cherry-Red-Khaki-Black-SKD3781.html

This 58″ wide plaid is only $2 a yard. With their discount code “Welcome” for new customers, that keeps a dress length of 7 yards under $20 with shipping. They have less than 100 yards left. So, if you want it, grab it quick. I can tell you I have always been happy with their fabrics.

I have pictured in my mind just the dress this fabric wants to be. I will see if I can find it.

Published in: on May 24, 2013 at 8:58 am  Leave a Comment  

Blog Rearranging

Dear Blog Subscribers,

I am doing some rearranging on the blog. My goal is to consolidate the long list of pages and subpages on the right in hope that it will make each topic easier to work through. To do this, I am moving pages to posts, which will be buried a few years back. I notice you may be getting notices of new posts each time I move something. My apologies for the confusion.

Warm Regards,

Anna

Published in: on May 22, 2013 at 11:43 am  Comments (1)  

Recommended Blog

Civil War reenacting friends, if you haven’t discovered it yet, I highly recommend checking out Civilian War Time. This blog transcribes letters and diary/journal entries each day. On the right hand side of the blog is a subscribe space. Enter your email to receive the posts daily.

Published in: on May 20, 2013 at 8:54 am  Leave a Comment  

“Red Day” at GCV

Today was such a lovely day. This was the first time I’ve dressed in mid-19th century clothes for the whole day in almost a year. It felt great.
This is where I spent the day:

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This cute pink building is the Dressmaker’s Shop. It has two rooms and a half story above. With the front & back doors open, the breeze was wonderful and made the day quite comfortable. This is where I sewed for the day as I talked with visitors. This green chair is almost the right height for me.

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Here is me trying to get a nice photo with the mirror. It doesn’t work so well by myself with a camera phone.

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Today was the first of a series of book signings the museum will have this year. (I’ll get a list to share.) The author of Stitches in Time, Elizabeth Davis signed 3 books for me. As this was the quilting project Grandma was involved with, I wanted Mom & Lily to have one. (This is the dress I was working on this week. I am thinking of adding red or pink to the inside of the self fabric trim that goes around the neck, around the sleeves, and will eventually be in circles on the skirt.)

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Next time, I need to bring more sewing. I thought this pair of sewing cases would take the whole day. They were done, sans wool pages forgotten at home, by 11:30.

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I have to say, after getting so sick the last few times I dressed, I was very worried about whether or not I could make it through the whole day. I think it went just fine and I felt good. The only time I felt a little funky was after back from the gallery in the afternoon sun without a parasol. So, I just have to stay out of the sun. Considering the car said it was 86 degrees at 4:30, I think this was a pretty good me test.
I am really looking forward to spending the day in the shop again. I am kicking myself for not doing it sooner. (A certain someone knew it was just what I needed.) I made myself a list of things to bring next time to show and talk about with visitors.
Now, hopefully Dan and dinner will arrive soon.

Published in: on May 19, 2013 at 4:49 pm  Comments (1)  
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Netherfield Ball Dress

Finally, my Netherfield Ball dress is just about finished. It needs closures and some tweeks. But, here it is, today’s work:

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The tweeks include this pucker, wrinkle or what ever you want to call it. Basically, a half inch needs to come out of the length.

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Published in: on May 18, 2013 at 6:07 pm  Comments (3)  

NB Sleeve Option

A Quick question for my Regency friends online today.
I have this striped section of my sari. Should. Try to use it for my sleeves?

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I have the skirt to put toegether and the bodice to do a few things with. I anticipate in the next 2 hours I need to decide on the sleeves. (It is 12:06 Eastern time)
Thoughts???

Published in: on May 18, 2013 at 11:07 am  Comments (1)  

Friday Night Millinery

With Dan off to an event, I slept in. How lovely is that? Now, before I dive into a full day of sewing, I want to share last night’s.
I lost track of time for ordering the pink ribbons to finish off the bonnets that have been dangling in the livingroom. Carole, at The Ribbon Store, came through for me. Here are the two bonnets with her pink ribbons. The green on the left is Lily’s. The pearl gray is mine, which I’ll be wearing tomorrow at GCV for their Red Day.
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To wrap up the trio, the slate grey bonnet finally got its ribbon and flowers attached too.
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I also moved the waist gathers on the green dress to eliminate that odd tug at the top closure. (Hopefully photos of that dress tomorrow)
So, now that I’ve read my 37 Saurday morning emails, it is time for a late breakfast followed by my Netherfield Ball dress.

Published in: on May 18, 2013 at 9:09 am  Leave a Comment  
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To Clean a Bonnet

Miss Leslie’s Lady’s House-book; a Manual of Domestic Economy Containing Approved Directions for Washing, Dress-making, by Miss Eliza Leslie, 1850.

TO CLEAN A STRAW OR LEGHORN BONNET

Having separated the crown from the brim and the cape or neck-piece, and removed the lining and wire, the next thing is to take out whatever stains may be found in the bonnet, the crown of which should be put on a wooden block. For grease, rub on with your finger some powdered Wilmington clay, or a little magnesia; and in an hour or two brush it off, and renew the application, if necessary. For other stains use either cream of tartar or salt of sorrel, put on a little wet. If salt of sorrel,must be washed off again almost immediately, lest it injure the straw by remaining on it. Afterwards (keeping the crown still on the bonnet-block) go over the whole surface of the bonnet with a brush dipped in a weak solution of pearl ash in lukewarm water, (a tea-spoonful to a quart.) Then scour it off at once, with a strong lather of brown soap and cold water, put on with a clean brush. When all the bonnet is well cleaned, rinse it in cold water, and hang it in the sun to dry. Bonnet cleaning should never be undertaken in damp weather. When the bonnet is perfectly dry, you may proceed to whiten it. Fill a chafing dish or portable furnace with burning charcoal; carry it into a small close room or into an empty press or closet, and by a line suspended across, hang the bonnet over the charcoal, at a safe distance, so that it will be in no danger of scorching. Then strew over the coals an ounce or two of powdered brimstone, and immediately go out and shut the door, seeing that no air whatever can get into the room. After the bonnet has hung in the vapour six or seven hours, throw open the door, (having first left open an outside door or window, so as to admit immediately the fresh air,) and go into the room as soon as you find you can do so without inconvenience from the fumes of the charcoal and sulphur. Then bring out the bonnet, and hang it in the open air till the smell of the brimstone has entirely left it. If the day is windy, so much the better; but the bonnet must on no account be hung out if the weather is damp, and it must be brought in before sunset. If it is not sufficiently white, repeat next day the process of bleaching it with charcoal and brimstone.

The next thing is to stiffen the bonnet. To make the stiffening, boil in two quarts of soft water, a quarter of a pound of vellum shavings, (the vellum of buffalo’s hide is best,) filling it up occasionally, if it seems to be boiling too dry. It must boil or simmer slowly for six or seven hours. Then, when you take it from the fire, let it stand a while to settle; after which,

pour it off into a basin, and it will become a thick jelly. To the sediment left in the pot, you may add a second two quarts of water; and after a second boiling, it will form another jelly or sizing, strong enough for similar purposes. When you are going to use it for a bonnet, melt up a pint of this jelly, and mix with it a small half-tea-spoonful of oxalic acid, (not more, or it will injure the straw,) and then with a clean sponge or brush go all over the bonnet, inside and out, with the sizing. Dry the bonnet; and when quite dry, go over it again with a second wash of the stiffening. Dry it again, and then spread over it a wet piece of jaconet muslin; or damp the bonnet all over with a sponge and lukewarm water, and then cover it with a fine white handkerchief, while you press it hard and evenly with a warm box-iron, exerting all your strength. The crown must be pressed while on the bonnet-block; the brim may be done on an ironing-table. Afterwards expose the bonnet to the air, till it becomes perfectly dry; and next day it will be ready for putting together, lining, and trimming; first mending whatever defective places may be found in it.

The front of a bonnet will keep its shape much better if the wire is thick and stout. In lining a bonnet, the best way for a novice in the art, is to pin a large sheet of thin soft paper on the outside of the brim, and (having fitted it smoothly) cut it of the proper shape and size, allowing a little for turning in at the edge. Then pin the paper into the inside of the brim, and if it fits perfectly smooth, cut out the silk lining by it. A piece of oiled silk sewed all round the inside of the crown, at the joining place, and extending down a little upon the brim, will prevent the stain from perspiration, that so frequently disfigures that part of a bonnet.

—Without a regular cleaning in the preceding manner, a discoloured straw bonnet may be improved in appearance, if previous to putting on a fresh trimming, you stretch the bonnet on a block, (or something that will answer the purpose,) and go all over it with a sponge dipped in lukewarm water, in which has been dissolved pearl-ash, in the proportion of a small tea-spoonful of pearl-ash to a pint of water; afterwards rinsing it off, wiping it hard with a flannel, and drying it well. Next, go over it with a clean sponge dipped in strong rice-water, which will be the better for having dissolved in it a half-teaspoonful of sugar of lead. Then dry the bonnet, and having damped it all over with a wet sponge, cover it with thin muslin, and press it hard with a heavy and moderately warm iron.

TO TAKE CARE OF BEAVER HATS A hat should be brushed every day with a hat-brush; and twice a day in dusty weather. When a hat gets wet, wipe it as dry as you can with a clean handkerchief, and then brush it with a soft brush, before you put it to dry. When nearly dry, go over it with a harder brush. If it still looks rough, damp it with a sponge dipped in vinegar or stale beer, and brush it with a hard brush till dry.

A good beaver hat should always, when not in constant use, be kept in a hat-box, with a hat-stick extended inside of the crown.

Published in: on May 18, 2013 at 8:00 am  Leave a Comment  
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Don’t Stress the Stress Lines

After a long winter and rainy spring, how many of us are trying on our dresses with hesitation?

Will it fit? Won’t it fit?

Will the bodice hook?

Will a button fly off?

This time of year, how many of us stress over those horizontal wrinkles that show up around the midriff of our bodices? How many of us stress over those stress lines? I have, year after year. Frankly, it is inevitable through the years as our bodies just change, hibernating winter or not.

Deep breath. I say “Don’t stress the stress lines.” Why? Take a look at some of these original images:

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A few more of various ages: Link 1 Link 2 Link 3

Now, this isn’t a set of stress lines, but I am curious as to why she chose this particular look. I don’t know that it was a fashion choice. I also don’t promote recreating it. LINK

Published in: on May 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm  Leave a Comment