“What do I get my wife for Christmas?”

Are you one of the many reenacting men who are wondering “What do I get my wife for Christmas?” or “What do I get my girlfriend for Christmas?”. If so, this post is for you.

With such a unique hobby it can sometimes be challenging to find that perfect gift or gifts. This is especially so if you are a military focused man while the love of your life is focused on an ever improving civilian impression. There are questions of authenticity piled on top of the usual questions of personal preferance and fit that go along with buying any woman a gift.

Well, here is a list of mid-19th century appropriate gifts that a woman is sure to love:

  • Lets start with the last minute gift just incase it is the last week before Christmas and you’ve been distracted with work, the weather and every other crazy thing that happens this time of year. You can find just about everything you need to make your wife or girlfriend a nice hair basket or box in your local stores. Really. Find a cute box or basket, on that is about the size of a softball and simple. If you happen to see a plain tin covered with a paper label in the holiday cookie/candy/nut section, grab that and take the label off. Head to the hair section. Here pick up a pack of hairnets (the kind the lunch ladies wore when you were in school), a pack of small hair pins, a pack of large hair pins, a pack of the brown plastic pins that look like shell and a pack of the small black elastic bands. Arrange these neatly in the box, basket or tin. If you have time and are crafty, take the items out of their package and put them in little fabric bags or tie them with pretty ribbon. (If you don’t have a bag, don’t open the elastic bands.)

Now, on to the items you can order online….

  • Ribbons are something every woman will love because they are so pretty and very useful. My favorite ribbon source is www.ribbonstore.com owned by a lovely woman named Carol. She is also on Ebay under Ribbon Store. The great thing about Carol and her ribbons is she send your ribbons in a pretty presentation inside a candy box. So creative! I highly suggest her silk satin ribbons which come in a variety of widths (pick 1″ and 1.5″ to start) and her German moire ribbons which come in bonnet widths (3″ and 4″). To figure out the right colors, think about what dresses you see your wife or girlfriend in most often at events or a dress she might be working on for herself this winter. 
  • Picking clothing is very difficult and a good thing to avoid. One expection are stockings. For stockings you want natural fibers (cotton, wool and silk.) I happen to love Sock Dream’s O Basics as well as their O Woolies as they are both very comfortable and nearly 100% natural. For silk stockings check out James Townsend who also has nice thin cotton stockings as well. For stocking colors white and black are the best safe choices. If you know she has a favorite color and might just wear colorful stockings, get one pair in her color. Clocking is good. Avoid stripes.
  • If you want to be a little creative, here is a little twist on filling a stocking I’ll call “a pocket full of sundries”. First, buy a pocket, the kind that ties around her waist under her skirts. Here are a couple 1, 2. Fill it with sundries such as – pomade, hand-salvea fan,  lavender soap or sachets and rose water.   Then top it off with a reproduction pattern. 
  • If you have plenty of planning and shopping time, some items you might consider include  a custom made box or trunk, or a carpet bag.   – If you happen to be a craftsman you can make her a lovely box or trunk. Just about any reenacting woman can use a new box or trunk.
  • If your wife loves keepsake gifts, you might consider a parasol, a lace or paisley shawl or a piece of jewelry. If you don’t have a local antique jewelry dealer you trust, here are some favorites – Originals by Kay and Another Time Antiques (who is my local go-to.) Marta Vincent's parasols available at Originals by Kay

Gift Certificate Ideas – If you want to play it safe or know your wife likes doing her own shopping, gift certificates are a nice idea. A few to try…

Published in: on November 14, 2011 at 1:11 am  Comments (1)  
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12 Homemade Gifts of Christmas – Day 12

The twelfth and final homemade gift is my husband’s pic – A quilt. Last year I assembled and quilted my husband’s quilt right in the living room while he slept on the couch. (He was working 12 hour nights and was impossible to wake up otherwise.) 

Okay, I know some of you are screaming “there is no way I can make a quilt in time for Christmas.” Sure you can!

The type of quilt I’m talking about is a stripy-quilt common during the first half of the century. These quilts are simple strips of fabric sewn side by side. You can use plain strips or pieces strips. You can even alternate. A quilt size good for a bedroll can be 45″ by 7 or 8 feet. Convienantly, you can cut a fat quarter (22″x22″) into four strips when sewn end to end gives you a 5.5″ wide strip 7 feet long. This strip will become 5″ wide if you use a 1/4″ seam allowance on each side when attaching the strips. So… this means you can use as little as 9 fat quarters of period correct fabric to make a simple stripy-quilt. To make piece stripes you will need more of course. I like to alternate pieced stripes with a solid color stripe. For the back, 3 yards of muslin will work. Choose a cotton or wool batting for the inside.  You will also need a fabric to bind the sides with. A half yard cut into 2.5″ strips should work nicely. Now how to get your quilt together.

Day 1 – Cut each of your fat quarters into their 5.5″ wide pieces. Sew each long strip together. Cut you binding strips. Sew them together in one long strip and set aside.

Day 2 – Lay your strips out next to each other and arrange how you want them to go together. Label them if you like. Stack them nicely. Take them to the machine and sew the strips in order. (You can do this by hand of course.)

Day 3 – Double check the length of your quilt front. Cut the muslin and batting to size. On a large flat surface, lay the muslin, batting and quilt top. (if there isn’t enough floor space, the bed works nicely.) Pin your layers together from the center out. When it is all pinned together, roll from the left in to center and the right into center, clipping with the large plastic hair clips.

Day 4 till? – Starting in the center and working out, quilt in the seams of the strips. This is called “stitching in the ditch”. Stitch the very center ditch. Then unroll one side just enough to see the next seam. Continue quilting in the seams and unrolling until the quilt is quilted. This is quite relaxing while watching your end of day tv, a favorite movie or even the kids doing their homework.

Day x – Pin the binding to the front of the quilt all the way around. (You may want to look up mitering corners.) Sew around the whole quilt. Fold the binding over to the back. Fold the raw edge under and whip to the muslin.

Ta-da…. You are done.

Need a recap?

  • 9 fat quarters
  • 1/2 yard binding fabric
  • 3 yards muslin
  • 45″x90″ cotton or wool batting (to be trimmed down)
  • Pins
  • Hair Clips (The kind that look like claws)
  • Some of your favorite videos or audio books. Possibly an activity for the kids as well.
  • Thread and needles
Published in: on November 1, 2011 at 1:11 am  Leave a Comment  
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12 Homemade Gifts of Christmas – Day 11

For the eleventh day of homemade gifts we have something for book lovers – A book marker.

This fun book marker comes from Peterson’s Magazine. It is made of two lengths of ribbons decorated to taste.

Take a length of ribbon, approx 2 feet, and cut it into two pieces one slightly shorter than the other. Fold each ribbon in ‘half’ so you have four different lengths at the ends. Lay the folded ribbons on top of each other with the folds together. Tightly whip the folds together with tiny stitches. Embroider the ribbons to taste. Use pieces of fabric to make the crosses (in Peterson’s or hearts in the case of mine) at the ends of the ribbon.

Published in: on October 31, 2011 at 1:40 am  Leave a Comment  
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12 Homemade Gifts of Christmas – Day 10

For the tenth day, we have toys – A ball and beanbags.

For either, the ball or the beanbags, all you need is fabric scraps and either batting or beans to fill them with.

For your bean bags, cut 4″ square pieces. Right sides together sew around all but a 1″ space on one side. Turn it right side out and fill with beans. Close the hole. For extra strong bean bags, sew around your fabric twice instead of once.

For your ball, cut 6 pieces according to this ball template. They can be all the same, alternating or all different fabric. Sew along the dotted line with the pieces right side togther. Before sewing the last seam, turn the ball right side out. Fill it with batting and close. The firmness or softness is up to you.

 

Published in: on October 30, 2011 at 1:54 am  Comments (2)  
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12 Homemade Gifts of Christmas – Day 9

For the ninth day of homemade gifts we have a non-sewing gift – Stationary.

Whether for writing letters at events or a nice note for a friend, period style stationary can be a nice touch. As a gift, you can give a set of simple paper cut to period sizes or add a period style border or motif all nicely tied with a ribbon. You can make matching envelopes. For an additional touch, you can add a period pencil or pen with ink. (Yes, I know, those aren’t homemade.)

For papers, try your small town stationary store (yes, they still do exist) or the scrapbook department of your choice craft store. You can select papers resembling period writing paper.

Published in: on October 29, 2011 at 1:02 am  Comments (2)  
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12 Homemade Gifts of Christmas – Day 8

The winter season is often thought of us who reenact or work at a living history museum as ball season. What a wonderful accessory would a little purse be as a gift this time of year.

Here is a pattern for one of my favorite little purses inspired by those in the MET and MFA collections.

You will need about a fat quarter (20″x20″) of silk for the exterior, a fat quarter for the inside and  two sheets of 8 1/2″x11″ pasteboard to make this purse. You may also want leather to use for the center or ribbon for the handles as well as a button for the closure.

Cut four pieces of pasteboard according to the inner most line. Cut two pieces of outer silk and two pieces of inner silk or scrap cotton according to the second dotted line from the center. Cover two sets of pasteboard, each with an outer and an inner fabric using a whip-stitch around the outside edge.

Cut lengths of the outer silk 3 1/2″ wide on the bias. Sew the strips together so you have one long strip at least 30″ long. Turn each side under to the wrong side a quarter inch. Gauge both folded edges down to the size of all sides  of the center piece except the very top.

With the outside of the bias piece and the outside of the first center piece together, whip the gauged bias to the center on all sided except the top.

Repeat with the other center piece.

Turn this piece right side out.

Cut two flat-topped circles according to the pattern out of the inside fabric. Sew with a quarter inch seam allowance. Whip if needed.

Slide the lining inside the bag. Turning in the raw edges at the top, attach the lining to the out silk.

Attach one or two handles as desired. Add a closer as desired.

Published in: on October 28, 2011 at 1:11 am  Leave a Comment  
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12 Homemade Gifts of Christmas – Day 7

For the seventh homemade craft, we have a quilted pocket. This type of pocket was worn under the dress and accessed through a slit in the skirt. This pocket is a quilted on which provides a pocket with some body to safetly carry what ever you need.

The first step is to piece together an 12″x9″ panel for the front of the pocket. You can use just about any arrangement that comes to mind. Though there are some traditional quilt patterns to avoid because they come after the mid-19th century. Refer to the pattern outline to help with your fabric and color placement because you will be cutting the pieced panel down.

Next –  Using this pocket pattern cut your materials including a back piece, front lining piece and batting as well as the pieced front.

Lay the front lining piece face to face with the pieced front. Sew along the straight dotted line. Cut along the solid straight line. Whip the edges if needed. Cut the batting along the dotted line. Lay the batting on top of the pieced front. Turn right side out. Quilt through the front, batting and lining as desired. Be sure to quilt around the slit opening.

Lay the front quilted panel right sides together with the back. Sew around the dotted line, a quarter inch seam allowance. Whip securely. Turn right side out.

Fold and press 1/4 inch in along the waist band. Fold in half length-wise and press. Center on the flat top of the pocket. Enclose the raw flat edges inside the waistband, sewing the band securely to the layers. Finish closing the entire waistband. Finished

You can also quilt the back as well. In this case, cut two lining pieces and two batting pieces.

Published in: on October 27, 2011 at 1:10 am  Comments (5)  
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12 Homemade Gifts of Christmas – Day 6

For this sixth day of Homemade Gifts we have an embroidered handkerchief. A handkerchief can be a lovely, timeless gift the receipiant will charish for years.

I can't show you the one I'm working on. So, here is one from years back I did by machine (I'm so horrible.)

 

The pages of Godey’s, Peterson’s, and Arthur’s are filled with border and corner designs for handkerchiefs. Here is a a file of a few taken from Peterson’s in 1861 and 1862 to get you started. As you can see, the variety gives options for any skill level.

For your handkerchiefs you can choose cotton or silk. One of my favorite inexpensive options for cotton is from Dollar General where you can find 18″ cotton handkerchiefs with machine rolled edges in a pack of 4 for 2 dollars. For silk handkerchiefs, take a look at Dharma’s 17″ twill handkerchiefs. Of course, you can make your own from a nice yardage by rolling the hems. For sizes, take a look at the Workwoman’s Guide.

Published in: on October 26, 2011 at 1:07 am  Leave a Comment  
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12 Homemade Gifts for Christmas – Day 5

For the fifth day of homemade gifts I’m sharing one I have in progress…. a lounging cap.

This was my initial inspiration, the Imperial Lounging-Cap from Peterson’s in 1857.

To pattern out the top pieces, in my case a nice black velvet, I measured my gift recipient’s head and divided into a workable number – 25 inches in five 5″ pieces. This was my base number to which I added a generous half inch seam allowance on each side. From the center, I measured up 7″ to find the top. Here I drew a 1″ line across the top. Next, I drew a graceful line mimicking the shape of the above cap.

After tracing the pattern onto you fabric, ideally a velvet or broadcloth wool, you can add your embroidery, cording or other decoration. (This is case of do as I say not what I do, as I’ve left the decoration for the end.) Also, trace and cut a set of lining pieces.

Assembly is easy. Just attach each set of pieces making certain the top pieces meet nicely.

Use either a piece of your exterior fabric or a piece of silk to bind the bottom edge and turn it to the inside. (Since I’ve been having fun with hoods, I used a piece of my hood’s silk and some of the batting so they will sorta go together.)

Published in: on October 25, 2011 at 1:05 am  Leave a Comment  
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12 Homemade Gifts of Christmas – Day 4

For the fourth day we have a cute little needle-book. Of course I had to include one.

This needle-book is based on an original I had. I think it would look great done up in festive colors.

You will need:
1 piece of thickly, firmly felted wool cut to 4″x3″
2 pieces of thin, tropical weight page wool cut to 3.5″x2.5″
2 pieces of silk moire ribbon 1/5″ wide, each 12″-14″ long
A 1-2″ scrap of the same ribbon
A narrow, 1/8″ to 1/4″ ribbon – A few inches for the sachet and 10-12″ for the closure ties.
A tiny bit of wool batting
Embroidery thread
The colors of the ribbon and wools should coordinate or compliment

Fold the thicker wool in half to make a 3″x2″ book cover.
Fold the needle page in half to make a pair 2.5″x1.75″. Bind the folds together. Blanket stitch along the raw edges. Attach to the fold of the cover.
Fold one ribbon in half draping it over the front cover of the book facing down. Sew along the edge of the ribbon on each side (through the ribbon, wool, ribbon). Continue to sew 2″ to 3″ past the edge of the book. Repeat on the opposite side of the ribbon.
Drape the other ribbon over the back side of the book facing up (The original faces up. It could work with both facing down as well). Sew along the edges of the ribbon as you did with the front cover.
Fringe the bottom edge of each ribbon.
With the ribbon scrap, batting and narrow ribbon, make a tiny 1/2″ wide sachet. Fill it with the batting and tie closed with the ribbon. Fringe the top of the ribbons just a bit. Attach to the front cover of the book.

Ta-da! A cute needle-book

Published in: on October 24, 2011 at 1:07 am  Leave a Comment  
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